heal a broken heart

If you are asking the question of how to heal my broken heart, then you have probably just ended a relationship with someone you loved very much. Interestingly, many people feel that when someone has a broken heart that they were the person that was dumped. However, many men and women alike realize that they aren’t in a healthy relationship, even if they love a person, and realize that it is best that they end things. This doesn’t mean that they don’t suffer from a broken heart, only that they realized that they need to make a change for a better future.
When you say: “heal my broken heart,” you aren’t necessarily trying to find a way to get back together with the person that you love. If that is the case, then you need to make some changes in your life to heal your own heart. You can do this without finding a new love, in fact you should move on without seeking out a new relationship because you aren’t over the old one yet.
One method of moving on and taking the heal my broken heart issue into your own hands is to start doing things that you used to do before you were in a relationship. Usually when someone starts dating someone or even gets married, they develop a couple’s pattern. They go to the same places and do the same things together. Get back into a previous routine so that you can establish your own thing that still feels familiar and comfortable for you.
Another thing that you can do is to eliminate everything that you have that used to belong to your ex. Some people recommend throwing everything away, but you should consider the stuff to a friend you trust, you never know when you will feel good enough to keep some pictures where you look fabulous or something like that. If you do give the stuff to a friend, tell them that they aren’t allowed to give it back to you or allow you to see the items until they are sure that you are no longer asking how to heal my broken heart but asking instead why it was broken in the first place.

heal, heal, and heal

Broken heart

I met this guy 11 years now, we have a child together, the child is 4 years old, when we started dating everything was good and happy, like all relationship, I was doing standard nine that time. We share everything, ideas we laugh together we do jokes, everything was just fine. After 10 years we dating, he told me that he has a child to another woman, but the broke with that woman, and they have dating for four years not me knowing anything. But I do forgive him and I gave him another chance, because he was apologising and he showed me that he did a mistake and he want things between me and him to be good again, okay I gave him another chance, because I still love him.

I asked him, and then are you still see your mother (the other woman) of your child, like are you still together, he said yes he can’t just live him like that, he want sometime to live her, then he promise by next year (2011) things will change I must support him and be by his side. Okay I give him another chance because I still love him.

This year’s (2011) things become so worse he has another woman again, when I ask him then what are trying to do now, because you said you want to change things this years and then what is this, he said no this person is not like I love him, it’s just happen anyway is going to end soon. In October he said by next year he want to get married, so I must gih a chance to sort things with this two girl friend of him, then again I gave him a chance but things went worse, up until I had enough and I told him,  its enough now you played with my feelings a lot you did not appreciate my love for you, so I quit.

It was very sad and unbelievable, why can’t you see that a person is not your good for at least in a year or two, instead of keeping her for 11 years, and you marry someone else, it hurts but God will answer one day

True Story By: Nondumiso Mateyisi

Of all the forms of courage the ability to laugh is the most...........

Laughing is the most wonderful and important thing that everyone needs to do. If you stressed about something once you laugh it all go away. Laughing is the cure, is the good medicine that you can used. It encourages you to keep on going even if someone ask you are you okay, you just laugh and say yes, whereas you know deep down you are hurt, but when you laugh at it, it all go.

When you laugh you can see that there is something that changes in your body, it makes your cells function well and laughing is very health.

Laugh, laugh ………………………………… ….

laughing is the weapon of stress.

The statute of limitations has expired on most of our childhood trauma

The stories of our life bad or good are what make us today. We tend to focus on our background or to the past and forget that we only live once in this earth. Why we mourning for something that will not change instead on focus on what future holds for us.

Let it go before it hurts you so much, if something you know it will not change why you keep on torturing  yourself about it, whatever your background was so bad, it does not mean that will not achieve something’s in life, you need to positive and focus on your future.

All of us have endured events and losses about which we had no choice. These include the families into which we were born, the way we were treated as children, the deaths and divorces of those close to us. It is not hard to make a case that we have been adversely affected by events and people outside our control. The idea that we have to sit and talk about the problems we face and the things we have tried that have failed imply a slow and unwieldy process that has at its core an uncomfortable assumption: We are responsible for most of what happens to us." 

"Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid"

If we learn to be patient in life and trust our mighty God, everything will be just fine. The mighty knows why you suffer, He knows everything about you. When you need Him is there to assist you, all the time He is there for us, we need to put our heart in Him and we will see His Grace.

The God we trusted on is there one that dies for us, and He sacrifices a lot for us. We need to adore Him and prays Him every day of our life, He is Alfa and Omega, and He changes the impossible to be possible. Just need us to believe on Him and not let the devil to control us. Without Him we are nothing, we breathe in the name of Him, lets worship his name and the mighty will just grant us with His spirit.

“He adjusts his clothing and footwear to the conditions, and he walks right through it.”

A good anorak will protect you from the rain that falls, and keep you dry underneath. Oh you'll feel the rain as it falls, but a good anorak is made from a prepared fabric, so the rain, or the sleet or the snow, will roll right off. And a good pair of rubber boots will protect your feet just the same. They are made from one solid piece of rubber, so the likelihood of them leaking is slim to none. And they usually have a good tread on them which allows you to power through the mud without slipping. By: Lisa

“Be bold and mighty will come to your aid”