I met this guy 11 years now, we have a child together, the child is 4 years old, when we started dating everything was good and happy, like all relationship, I was doing standard nine that time. We share everything, ideas we laugh together we do jokes, everything was just fine. After 10 years we dating, he told me that he has a child to another woman, but the broke with that woman, and they have dating for four years not me knowing anything. But I do forgive him and I gave him another chance, because he was apologising and he showed me that he did a mistake and he want things between me and him to be good again, okay I gave him another chance, because I still love him.
I asked him, and then are you still see your mother (the other woman) of your child, like are you still together, he said yes he can’t just live him like that, he want sometime to live her, then he promise by next year (2011) things will change I must support him and be by his side. Okay I give him another chance because I still love him.
This year’s (2011) things become so worse he has another woman again, when I ask him then what are trying to do now, because you said you want to change things this years and then what is this, he said no this person is not like I love him, it’s just happen anyway is going to end soon. In October he said by next year he want to get married, so I must gih a chance to sort things with this two girl friend of him, then again I gave him a chance but things went worse, up until I had enough and I told him, its enough now you played with my feelings a lot you did not appreciate my love for you, so I quit.
It was very sad and unbelievable, why can’t you see that a person is not your good for at least in a year or two, instead of keeping her for 11 years, and you marry someone else, it hurts but God will answer one day
True Story By: Nondumiso Mateyisi
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