" Convetional is a good fallback position isn't it?

Yes of course it is. its safe, secure and comforting and highly accepted by society. You just know you cannot go wrong, things is how far will it get you in an over changing world.

for many people, its just way more comforting than living outside of accepting standards and norms. Do what is expected of you and keeping others happy.

change can be scary and risky, opening yourself up to the great unknown, opening that little door of change so the unknown becomes the known. Life becomes that adventure you've been dreaming about and reach highs you though impossible.

you need to change your 'fallback" attitude and become a respected person.

Conventional, Change and Respect, that's a key to success!!!